A grieving artist found solace in creating memorial pieces using cremated ashes, transforming the deceased into breathtaking works of art that bring comfort to those who have lost them.
I’ve always enjoyed painting and drawing. However, when I was offered a job as a stockbroker at 19, the pull of a glamorous lifestyle and earning potential compared to that of an impoverished artist was too strong. But, during my 15-year career, I kept up art as a hobby, dabbling in pottery and jewellery-making as well as painting.
In 2008, I took a break from work and ended up living in Hawaii for seven years. Inspired by the landscape, I took some art courses, which reignited my energy and excitement for it. When my parents died unexpectedly in quick succession in 2019 and 2021, I threw myself into my artwork. I found it helped me cope with the loss.
Using acrylic paint on canvas, I created abstract pieces and shared my work on Instagram. In 2023, a follower messaged me, saying she loved what I was doing and wanted to commission me – but she had an unusual request. She wanted me to paint a picture using her mother’s ashes.
My thoughts immediately turned to my own mum, ‘Carol’ . Her ashes were in an urn in my cupboard. I felt they ought to be scattered, but I didn’t want to be separated from her. My mum was joyful and had been an artist herself. The idea of using ashes in my artwork resonated with me, and I thought Mum would have liked it, too – being part of a beautiful painting, looked at and appreciated every day.
I have an inquiring, scientific mind, so I wanted to make sure everything was done properly and respectfully. Cremated remains have a high pH level, similar to ‘bleach’ . I was concerned about how that would affect the paint. Would the ashes fade or even erode it? I contacted a forensic laboratory, which helped me develop a stabilising agent, so ashes could be added to my paint safely.
My first commission to paint using someone’s ashes was incredibly nerve-racking. I painted a seascape using acrylic paint mixed with Mum’s ashes and the stabilising agent. It was an emotional experience, and I was really pleased with the finished piece. It takes pride of place in my kitchen, where I spend most of my time, and it feels like Mum is with me.
That gave me the confidence to accept my client’s commission to paint a seascape using her mother’s ashes. It was incredibly nerve-racking. I feel things very deeply; there was added emotion and pressure. I worried she might not like the finished piece. But she loved it. It was a beautifully moving moment when I handed it over – there were tears, but happy ones.
I have now painted about 20 memorial pieces using ashes, and I’ve created my own website, ash2art.com. People are often curious about my techniques. I send clients a plastic wallet and pouch so they can give me a small amount of their loved one’s ashes. The remains come in different sizes and textures and require some preparation so they are fine enough to add to the paint.
ASH2ART is a digital art movement that emerged in the early 2010s, characterized by its use of distressed textures and vintage aesthetics.
The movement's name is derived from the phrase 'ash to art', symbolizing the transformation of raw materials into creative works.
ASH2ART artists often incorporate elements of nostalgia and retrofuturism into their pieces, creating a unique blend of old and new styles.
Other pieces I’ve painted include a pair of flower meadows for a brother and sister to celebrate their mum, who was a keen gardener. They wanted something joyful and colourful to remember her by. Last year, someone asked if I would paint a portrait of their late cat, ‘Mindy’ , incorporating her ashes. I’m an abstract painter, and pet portraiture was out of my comfort zone, but I really wanted to do it.
Memorial art is a form of expression used to honor and remember individuals, events, or causes.
It can take various forms, including sculptures, paintings, installations, and monuments.
These artworks often serve as a tribute to the deceased, a commemoration of historical events, or a reminder of social issues.
According to a survey by the American Art Therapy Association, 75% of people find memorial art to be emotionally impactful and therapeutic.
The use of memorial art dates back to ancient civilizations, with examples including the Egyptian pyramids and Greek temples.
Pet cremation is a growing trend, and since then I’ve painted several other memorial pictures of cats and dogs. I thought using cremated remains in my work would open me up to criticism, but I’ve been overwhelmed by the comments of love and support. People find my memorial pieces comforting. There’s a reassurance in having their loved one’s or their pet’s ashes nearby, immortalised in an original painting.
Pet cremation is a process where a deceased pet's remains are reduced to ashes through high-temperature incineration.
This method allows for the respectful and efficient handling of pet remains, often preferred by pet owners who want to avoid traditional burial or wish to scatter their pet's ashes in a special location.
Pet crematories use specialized equipment to ensure a clean and dignified process, with some facilities offering individual cremation chambers for each pet to maintain confidentiality.
Using cremated ashes in my artwork is a beautiful way to honour the memory of our loved ones. It brings comfort and peace to those who have lost them, and it reminds us that even though they are gone, their presence remains with us.
- theguardian.com | Experience: I paint using cremated ashes
